As part of a routine Question of the Day posted to Facebook, I decided to turn the spotlight around and open up the floor to my followers to ask questions related to birth photography.
I love getting the opportunity to share my passion with others and hope this helps potential clients get to know me a little better!
A: There aren’t usually many people in the room except for actual delivery time. That is a relatively short moment in the birth story. In a hospital setting, I am usually stationed up at the head of the bed during delivery. That keeps me out of the way and lets me capture the very first moments without getting too graphic. Crowning/delivery pictures sometimes aren’t even allowed in our hospitals here.
I often end up being recruited into a lead support role for the mom and dad.
A: I love when there is enough natural light coming through the windows for clear pictures. Those are always the most stunning images in my opinion. Since most births happen at night, I must rely on the room’s ambient light or flash. I invested in some of the best equipment for low light photography. And have worked my tail off to master the settings so that flash isn’t needed.
I do bring a flash along. I can aim up at the ceiling to more uniformly spread the light throughout the room. That also prevents popping a bright flash in anyone’s face. I have only ever used a flash for the actual delivery pictures. There is lots of movement going on, so a flash is often needed to prevent motion blur. Flash is only used with permission from the mother and people assisting her. Typically, there is so too excitement during the delivery for anyone to notice the flash.
A: Happy tears every time. The room is overflowing with excitement, love, relief, and new life.
A: I’m split between that very first moment mama touches her baby and the calm afterwards when she is delicately inspecting him. Every mama does it. The shakes have worn off, the doctor and nurses have withdrawn, and she is 100% sucked into this tiny space. She looks under the hat to see how much hair he has. Mama rolls the tiny, wrinkly fingers in her own. She inspects every possible detail without realizing it and breathes in that new baby smell.
A: Every birth is so different and so powerful that I cannot imagine it ever becoming ordinary. I think that medical professionals are so focused on looking for potential problems and performing/monitoring procedures that they do not have the time to truly enjoy the beauty of it all. I feel incredibly lucky to be put in that position to focus on the beauty.
A: During consultations with my clients, we discuss the game plan for go time. I want to know how previous births progressed and what her plan is with regards to early labor. She’ll let me know her plans on any early interventions or induction. It’s important to know how far she is traveling to her birth place. I’ll also take into consideration how that birth place handles the different stages of labor.
I’m not sure what they do for the mamas who don’t want cervical checks! I rely heavily on emotional signposts, which means I always I ask to speak to Mom before heading her way. I want to hear her voice and how she works through a contraction. I’m listening for her level of confidence and excitement. It’s important to recognize how serious she is; how coherent she is during a contraction if she is even able to speak.
I like to show up to a birth early enough to capture some of her story prior to active labor. I ask clients to contact me at the earliest signs of labor so that I can be as prepared. There is lots to do on my end and I want to be ready to jump when the time comes.
A: I believe there are some unique benefits in having one’s birth story illustrated. The pictures can help her process her birth. They show her so many details that she would never have otherwise known about on her baby’s birthday. I do my best to tell HER story with the images. But, I am drawn to the beauty, the strength, the overpowering emotions, and connections. I have the ability to redirect her attention to so many positives that could easily fall through the cracks. This is especially important during a difficult birth.
Feelings of loss and failure that women feel after a traumatic birth are very real and important to work through. I don’t want to diminish that in any way. The pictures help her view that birth experience in a more positive light. That can potentially improve her recovery, bonding, and hopefully even minimize the effects of postpartum depression.
I want my pictures to help reframe birth for the mother. She comes away feeling like a sweaty, out of control disaster, when she was really a birthing goddess and I have visual proof! I also want to reframe birth in our society’s eyes. Most people think of birth as scary, messy, and painful. Others realize that it can be the most empowering and beautiful moments of our life. I want moms to go into birth expecting and visualizing the latter.
Our birth experience goes a long way toward defining us. It becomes a part of our identity.
We need to continue fighting for healthier birth experiences and better options. I believe Mama should be in control of as long as she and baby are doing well.
As someone who was told many times after my traumatic birth experience, “All that matters is that you have a healthy baby,” I’m a big supporter of the #BirthMatters campaign by ImprovingBirth.Org.
As a birth photographer, I love that I can support moms through this journey. I love helping her have the birth experience she desires. And then I can turn around and show her that strength in beautiful and artistic images.
A: I got my first DSLR camera right after Kaia was born. People have always told me that I am a natural with a camera. But, this was the first time I had a quality piece of equipment to work with. Unfortunately, I didn’t figure out how to really use it until she was closer to a year old. That was also right about the time I first saw pictures of birth photography. I was laying in bed snuggling with Kaia and browsing Facebook. This link with some phenomenal pictures showed up: www.dfwbirthphotographer.com
After 8 years of being overwhelmed with Mommyhood, I needed something more. I needed something where I could do what I love, be appreciated for it, and reclaim my artistic identity. This is what I wanted to do! I wanted to combine my growing excitement for photography with my well-established passion for birth.
A: It hit me like walking into A/C from 115F weather. I just knew it was perfect the first time I saw a gallery of images…when I first realized it was even “a thing”. I love photography, I love birth, and I love showing mamas how amazing they are. My biggest struggle has been showing the Manhattan-area that it is “a thing” and very valuable investment at that.
A: I’m not just being hired as a birth photographer. I’m being brought on as an important part of a birth team. It’s important to be respectful not just of the mom and her birth needs, but also of the father, relatives, nurses, doctors, doulas, and all policies. Whether a mom is having a natural birth, an epidural, or a c-section, every member of that birth team plays an incredibly important role to the mother and how her story plays out.
Not only does my training help me know when I need to drop everything and head for the birth place. But, I’m able to connect with her or provide the privacy and distance she may need without her ever saying a word. Depending on what the mother wants from me, I need to be able to know when it’s time to put that camera down and be more hands on. I’m also prepared to relieve Daddy of certain duties so that he can be by her side rather than running around getting things for her.
It is not enough to gauge a mama’s progress based on how dilated her cervix is. I believe labor will progress better without those routine checks. The very first birth I attended involved a mama who progressed from 5cm to baby in just 7 minutes! I could tell that we would be meeting her daughter very soon despite what the mom took as disheartening news from the nurses.
Check out my blog post on what you are getting from a trained birth photographer.
A: Yes, it’s all about the legal risks and implications. If something ever goes wrong during a birth, it won’t matter if the parents say that the birth photographer had nothing to do with the incident. Any lawyer worth her money will call out every person who was in the birth space. A birth photographer will need to be covered as a doula if there was intent to provide doula support.
Between the struggles of just running one business and not wanting to be hired as a doula without birth photography services at this time, I’ve decided to declare my intent as birth photographer only. That does not mean my clients will not benefit greatly from my education and expertise!
A: This is a great question! While I do have doula training, having a dedicated doula will allow me to focus more on the photography. I’m less likely to be put in a position to make a tough decision if I feel my support is needed more than the pictures. That said, I love playing the doula role.
I also love capturing doulas in action. That makes for some awesome captures of bonding between women. While some births really do go super smoothly and moms end up not needing as much support, typically there is plenty that a doula and I can do as a team to make her more comfortable.
When feasible, I think having a dedicated doula is a great idea. The entire birth team needs to work together to make it all about the laboring mother. Having two extra birth professionals who care deeply about the mother coming away with an amazing birth experience? Sounds like an awesome plan!
A: Yes, and that’s a big part of why I feel it is so important for birth photographers to have doula training and to be aware of how the mother is responding to her presence. Birth is a very private process. Women don’t tend to relax while being watched or waited on. Having a camera on them more than likely isn’t helping. Even if she desperately wants these pictures, her comfort level is so important. Fortunately, by the time things get exciting, nobody really notices me. It’s the early and active labor that I’m more concerned about.
They will be surrounded by strangers in a hospital setting. Both parents will likely feel far more comfortable with me than the variety of nurses and doctors coming in and out. Having strangers in your birth space isn’t good for progress, so let’s minimize that factor.
I also feel that it is crucial that my clients understand that her birth experience needs to come before the pictures. If I feel like she is too tense, it’s time for me to go for a (close) walk and give her some quiet time. I always expect that I will take several breaks during labor, but we pretty much always end up connecting at a level where my presence is desired.
A: If I had known about birth photography when my babies were born and I was faced with the costs, I would have been scared off. Birth is expensive even when you have decent insurance. So, I realize how difficult it is to add on another big ticket item. And while I think there are some invaluable emotional health benefits that come with honoring and cherishing our birth experiences this way, this is considered a luxury item. That said, I can’t tell you how much I wish I had a professional birth photographer at my last two births. Those pictures without a doubt would have been among my most cherished possessions. If you cannot afford to hire a professional, still plan for pictures! I hope you will consider making arrangements for someone other than Daddy to be in charge of capturing the details of your birth story.
The question should actually be why does it cost so little. Birth photography isn’t a hobby. It is a very time consuming career that requires a great deal of time commitment let alone equipment. I know very few birth photographers who are able to truly charge what they are worth. Birth photography is just barely becoming a trend.
This is one of my favorite birth photography quotes:
“Shooting a birth is like getting an inquiry from a bride saying that she wants you to come photograph her wedding, but isn’t going to set a date. She’ll just call you whenever, and when you ask her how many hours of coverage she would like, she says she’s not sure, probably around 24, but maybe only 2.
And you ask her when she’d like for you to start coverage and she says she won’t know, but probably around 2am. And also, that she doesn’t want any use of flash. So when you ask her if there will be bountiful natural light, she says that she’ll be getting married in a dark closet with no light whatsoever. And, she’s going to want the images right away to send out announcements….We’d all be quoting this bride $50,000.00.”
–Lexia Frank, birth and wedding photographer in Portland, OR.
And perhaps even turning clients away in order to guarantee I will be available for booked sessions. I still would be making far less than a wedding photographer when you break it down into an hourly rate.
I know that most people simply cannot afford the price of birth photography, which is why I encourage friends and family to get together to gift their loved one this priceless opportunity.
A: For starters, I am very passionate about birth and showing the world how beautiful it really is. I want women to go into their births with visions of strength, resilience, and inner peace as opposed to our society’s general fear-mongering.
Despite how she may feel, I get to show her that she was indeed a birthing goddess. A bride expects that she will be the most beautiful on her wedding day. She puts an incredible amount of time and money into insuring that! A birthing mama has no such expectations and I absolutely love being given the opportunity to wow her with my perspective.
A: The on call time is the hardest part of this job. Making sure my kids are taken care of for an unknown amount of time is difficult. I know I wouldn’t be nearly as good at what I do if I didn’t have these three babies, so that just comes with the territory. As they have gotten older, this aspect of my job has become easier. But, I’ve had several births where I was gone for over 24 hours, so you can imagine the strain that can put on my family. I’ve missed major family holidays to be 100% present for someone’s birth.
I cannot just leave my expensive gear in the car. So, I’m constantly loading and unloading everything I need when I leave the house. I have my own hospital bag to prepare, I cannot take meds that might make me sleepy, and I have to adjust my own sleep schedule to make sure it is safe for me to drive and I will be able to be at my best any time day or night. Alcohol is off limits during that on call time. Leaving town is out of the question. I go to great lengths to keep myself healthy, which sometimes means I don’t get to cuddle with my sick babies. Sometimes, I will have to reschedule other photo sessions (thank you to my clients for being understanding!).
All of that said, I absolutely love my job and mothers should never be worried about any inconvenience to me. I once heard a birth photographer say that if the client feels badly about taking your time, you’re not charging enough!
All questions posed by friends and clients of Little Leapling Photography
and all answers are by Tammy Karin.